Parenting – Overcoming Racial bias: Acknowledge it

Children are always watching and listening, but since protests for racial justice have spread across the globe, they’re witnessing, absorbing and internalizing possibly more than anyone knows.

A recent statement from the American Academy of Pediatrics says pediatricians states they are

“deeply concerned about the effects of racism on children. Even vicarious racism — secondhand racism witnessed through social media, conversations with friends or family, or media images — harms children’s health.”

Being a positive role model is one of the most powerful tools parents have to overcome racial bias.

Here are a few suggestions to get the conversation started:

  • Silence is its own message. Don’t avoid conversations.
  • Reflect on your own biases and uncomfortable feelings.
  • Color is real. Don’t ignore or pretend it’s not there.
  • Start talking about racism early in your child’s life.
  • Read books together about racial equality and anti-racism.
  • Listen to their questions and be honest with your answers.
  • Realize this isn’t one conversation, but rather a series of many.
  • Be a good example.

“For children and adolescents, of all ages, the most powerful communication strategy is role modeling,” says Dr. Paul Croarkin, a Mayo Clinic pediatric psychiatrist. “Parents and caregivers often underestimate how important their own behaviors and communications with others are versus direct communication with a child.”

From: MAYO CLINIC NEWS NETWORK (the Atlanta Journal Constitution, July 5, 2020)